Set Me Free - Why Don't You Babe?
Feb 03, 2025
Set my free, why don't you, babe? Get out my life, why don't you, babe? 'Cause you don't really love me You just keep me hangin' on - Kim Wilde
Are you staying in a relationship because you’ve convinced yourself that true love and happiness don’t exist?
So you stay—trapped in a story where your heart doesn’t belong, forcing yourself to fit into a world where you were never meant to be - at least not anymore.
Deep within, you already know this isn’t good for you—or for the person you’re holding onto.
Maybe you don’t even feel love for them anymore.
How could you, when you’ve stopped loving your own heart and listening to your own needs?
You’re exhausted. Overwhelmed. And so are they.
You both deserve more than the shadows of the vibrant people you once were.
This relationship is draining the energy out of both of you.
But guilt, fear, and uncertainty keep you stuck. You keep convincing yourself to stay.
You feel like your throat is strangled, your heart is cold, and the magic has long since disappeared.
You look into their eyes and realize: the spark is gone.
The flame has been extinguished.
You know it’s over.
Yet you procrastinate the inevitable, clinging to what no longer fits.
How long will you punish yourself—and your partner?
If you no longer love them…
If you no longer desire them…
Set them free.
Why don't you babe?
Let them go so they can find someone who loves and desires them as they deserve to be.
This relationship no longer fits—and maybe, if you’re honest, it never truly did.
WHY DO WE STAY WHEN WE SHOULD LET GO?
Sometimes, we hold on to relationships like we do a too-tight dress or a pair of baggy old pants.
We think, “What if I need this again someday?”
"This feels comfortable or maybe I will fit into it some day."
The truth is - maybe it never fit you but you saw "potential" or it just "fell into your lap."
But unlike a piece of clothing, another human being deserves better than to be kept around just in case.
You know this.
But leaving is hard. It’s scary.
What is even scarier is telling someone that you are not in love with them and maybe never were truly "in love" with them.
And yet, leaving may be the very step you need to take to finally open the door to true happiness.
CONSCIOUS UNCOUPLING
Consciously uncoupling is not just about ending a relationship; it’s about doing so with care, intention, and respect—for yourself and for your partner.
It’s about transforming pain into meaning.
It’s about rediscovering the self you may have lost in the relationship and stepping into a brighter, more aligned future.
You don’t have to do this alone. I can help guide you through this journey with tools, practices, and compassionate support that will leave you stronger, clearer, and more whole than ever before.
HOW I CAN HELP YOU THRIVE AFTER A BREAKUP
💖 Release Deeply Held Hurts:
Learn to listen to your heart, rewrite the story of your breakup, and meet your true self.
💖 Reflective Journaling Prompts & Exercises:
Unlock feelings you’ve never been able to put into words, helping you release pain and embrace gratitude.
💖 Reconnect With Your Sacred Self:
Explore tools and techniques to meet and celebrate the innermost parts of yourself that were abandoned in the relationship.
💖 Spiritual Practices for Healing & Clarity:
Dissolve limiting beliefs and false narratives to see your past, present, and future with new, empowering clarity.
WHO CAN BENEFIT FROM THIS JOURNEY?
🌟 Anyone ready to emerge from a breakup or divorce with courage, clarity, and hope.
🌟 Those seeking to rediscover their true essence beyond the confines of their past relationship.
🌟 People looking for mindful, soulful practices to move forward with confidence and purpose.
🌟 Anyone needing a compassionate, heart-centered guide to navigate the waves of heartbreak and transformation.
You don’t have to stay where your heart doesn’t belong.
Love isn't a life sentence.
You deserve to thrive, to love, and to be loved deeply and so does your partner.
Let’s create the life and love you’ve always dreamed of. You don't have to figure this out alone.
Consultation Call with Catherine
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xoxo love, Catherine
The Love Priestess
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